tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-672662853823386122.post8026971193031940389..comments2023-03-11T20:34:10.863+10:00Comments on Of The Male Persuasion: I am emptyTommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15528855546874936517noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-672662853823386122.post-74669964489261513942010-07-04T22:43:10.481+10:002010-07-04T22:43:10.481+10:00Hey Tommy, don't feel like your missing out by...Hey Tommy, don't feel like your missing out by not living at a college. I lived on campus for 2 years, and although i made a few friends there, after I moved I kind of lost contact with a lot of people. Not because of any tensions or anything, its just that while at college you tend to form smaller cliques and stick mainly with a few people, only really socializing with others at social events. I also found that because college life was so self-contained, it made most people including myself somewhat lazy and unwilling to make friends or socialise with non-college kids. Its like why bother when you can just socialise with the people on college right?<br /><br />Moving out of college though really changed my perspective on life, and showed me how really narrow minded we were while living on campus. <br /><br />I think its cool that you've been able to make friends with people from your classes and hang out with them. While i've been at uni, i've never been able to make friends with anyone. The only people i know here are those i met while living in college. It kind of sucks because now that I've moved out, I hardly see any of the college people anymore. There's also this feeling of not being a part of something anymore. Since I never had any uni friends, whenever I'm there I'm usually a loner. <br /><br />Things always look greener on the other side, but really its not all that different.empty_spaceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07992102554939841886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-672662853823386122.post-41421366295325952162010-06-17T23:17:51.203+10:002010-06-17T23:17:51.203+10:00This comment has been removed by the author.Phunk Factorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00384359308743382379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-672662853823386122.post-38001282299888654862010-06-17T23:15:43.030+10:002010-06-17T23:15:43.030+10:00If ur gonna keep looking at yesterday, you'll ...If ur gonna keep looking at yesterday, you'll never look into the future!! Sure....u've screwed up a couple of times bt things happen fr a purpose!!<br /><br />Who knows....hd u grown up in the city...u cud be doing drugs or something!! Growing up in a farm isn't neccesarily bad....n maybe ur kinda down on the social side...bt that isn't something that can't be corrected!!!<br /><br />Go out more....plan something with ur friends....there are a million things u cn do! Start with one or two ppl and build up.....socializing is the EASIEST thing in the world imo....the only thing that stops most ppl is low self-esteem...probably!!!<br /><br />I nvr wanted to do medicine...believe me, i wanted to go to film production and direction...thats what i wanted and i still do sometimes!!<br /><br />Bt I don't hate where i am...i've grown to love it!!! It needs some time and a lil patient!!! So cheer up....tomorrow hopefully ur day would be MUCH better!!Phunk Factorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00384359308743382379noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-672662853823386122.post-66994150545571861162010-06-17T21:51:24.856+10:002010-06-17T21:51:24.856+10:00Ummm what Can I say, I just arrived in your blog a...Ummm what Can I say, I just arrived in your blog and in this precise post...<br />Ow come on cheer up buddy, life can be so shitty sometimes but not meaningless, everything you are and what you've lived, make a special part of that great human being I feel you are.<br />Try to be more open to the world, is not easy, believe me I live it myself as I'm like an ocean away from my house and the Univ here is getting sooo boring and my life, so lonely.<br /><br />Don't be so stressed, there are signatures more hard than others, forget about thatone in a while, and take some time for yourself, in order for you to be focused in the other signatures.<br /><br />hope you have a nice day tomorrow, I send you all my positive energy. ByeeeWilmarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15175239933098025534noreply@blogger.com